Men’s work – Being a man – Men’s circle – Men’s work

Men Gang Pfaffenhofen

Being a man – can be very complicated today.

Being a man in today’s society means rocking family and job. Cultivate relationships “Always stand your ground”. To endure the tension between all the expectations that are placed on us men…
And where does that leave us ourselves?

Eibenwald - 19. February 2025
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Men in today’s society

Today, being a man often means growing up in a society where men talk about cars and jobs. In other words, about “male” topics that are often only external in terms of content.

We haven’t learned to talk about our inner worlds because it’s considered “weak” and real men are never weak… ah … that’s not true … the “real, modern man” has to be weak too, of course … but no one has ever shown us or taught us how. Neither our father (who didn’t know – how could he?!) nor our mother, who grew up with a completely different world view.

Men’s work

It took me many years to find men with whom I could have these conversations.

As a child, I was laughed at by the other boys when I thought about myself, when I asked myself questions like “What must a boy be like? “Who am I actually and what can I do and what do I want anyway”?

Then I learned not to ask those questions anymore….

My best friend died at the age of 28 – we shared everything…. but only had one real conversation about the meaning of life. That was 2 weeks before his death. 1998.

I was looking for myself. For so many years.
I took refuge in too much work to the point of burnout. Drugs, sex, etc. I also have two failed marriages behind me, which resulted in two really great children (for whom I am infinitely grateful).

I have been involved in men’s circles for a number of years.

I gratefully take part in meetings with men in which we can discuss all topics. Love. Sex. Sense. Fears. Vision. Objectives.
Weekend seminars, as well as regular Zoom meetings with men from Germany, Austria and Switzerland.

And I have been accompanying other men on their journey for some time now.

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My men’s ministry consists of the following offerings, among others:

Men’s work is a very special kind of accompaniment, coaching.
Men’s work means working on issues, in private conversation or in men’s circles in the safe protection of other men who hold you.

I am honored to be able to accompany so many great big brave men. Seeing us all grow, become braver and find ourselves more and more.

Do you have any questions about what I do? Feel free to contact us here: Contact
I look forward to seeing you, man!

Jörg


Brothertree – an association of men for men

Eibenwald - 19. February 2025

Eibenwald - 19. February 2025
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Men gang Pfaffenhofen

Men Campfire

We know regulars’ tables, and even love them sometimes.

But is that all?

Here, often only “normal” men’s conversations are held, and there is no real talking. We don’t really exchange ideas and thus deprive ourselves of opportunities to support and reflect on each other . What remains is the feeling of being alone with one’s problems and thoughts, of being the “only one” and therefore not being “right” as one is.

Männerbande Pfaffenhofen

Men gang Pfaffenhofen

What if there was a framework in which all these other issues could be accommodated, honored and appreciated?

What if we talked about ourselves, explored together who we really are?

What if we could find out together who we want to be in reality?

In a circle with other men, in a protected setting.

In the yew forest in Pfaffenhofen
&
at power places outside in nature

I want to gather these men here in Pfaffenhofen an der Ilm, the place where I live. And give us men a space, and the opportunity to have conversations beyond the regular table talk.

Talk when you want to talk. Listening when you need to. Silence when you don’t want to speak. Learning from other men. Learning and practicing to be who we are without having to pretend .

Shaman Pfaffenhofen

“Topics are covered here that probably aren’t discussed that often otherwise”

(TV.Ingolstadt, feature about us on 8/18/2021). Link here, the report about us starts from min 8:25

To feel ourselves in our power that is born from deep within ourselves.

We are and were men. Warrior. Hunter. Craftsman. Guide. Farmers. Pride. Honest. Faithful, to us and to our clan.

We used to meet around the campfire in the evenings.
Told how the day was and learned from each other.

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One of our power places in the forest, where we sometimes meet for men’s gang Pfaffenhofen …

I want to gather us again, to bring back into our daily lives a tradition that has been forgotten for far too long.

You are so very welcome … At the bonfire of the men – the men’s gang in Pfaffenhofen!

Männerbande Pfaffenhofen – I look forward to you, man!

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    Hallo 👋
    wir sind Alice und Jörg vom Eibenwald. Wie können wir dir helfen?